Relationship is defined as the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
The key word “connected” gives way to a feeling of how things mesh or interlace.
Healthy love relationships basically come down to a decision made by two people – deciding that they want to play a positive role in someone’s life – that they will go into it thinking of ways to give to someone else and not just ways to get what they need.
It also comes down to trust and communication. As most things do, relationships take work and commitment but it should not feel hard or like you’re losing yourself or going against the current. If two people are always looking out for the best for each other, the obstacles will often seem irrelevant. And while there are many books, articles, blogs on relationships and what works best, the thing to remember is that no one is in YOUR relationship or knows you or your partner.
What works for one relationship may not work for yours. That being said, here are 3 Ways to Strengthen Your Relationship in 2017.
Couples Massage Lesson
Massaging each other gives way to the power of touch.
It develops trust and gives life to endorphins which will create an all around ‘feel good’ essence in your union. While touch for your loved one is naturally intuitive, a couples massage lesson will help you to do certain strokes to ensure relief and relaxation for your partner. If you are interested in learning how to give a massage to your loved one, we can guide you through the process. We’ll show you how to prepare for a massage experience, describe and demonstrate various strokes and discuss massage’s healing benefits. We believe that couples can achieve a higher state of emotional intimacy with the healing power of touch. Once you learn the art of touch that will bring pleasure and soothe your partner, you can make a monthly date to take care of each other.
Couples Massage Side by Side
Create a date night that you pre-plan and mark on your calendar. You can even plan a weekend or even a night away every three months and schedule your couples massage for the same night. It’s a great way to spend quality time together and finish your date off with complete relaxation. It takes you away from the norm of everyday living and gives you time to reconnect as a couple and bring yourselves back to where you first started. This is a simple but very effective spa service you can schedule for each other every 3 months for 2017. If you’d like to start with us, please check out our series which allows you to book a block of spa services you can spread out over 2017 and book as you like.
Date to Meditate
The concept of meditation misleads many people as they often describe it as hard or they struggle with the fact that their mind keeps wandering. Meditation is really solely to follow your breath – and to let your mind do what it wants.
Each time your mind wanders, your only obligation is to come back to breath. Don’t fight it or try to stop – just come back to breath – time and time again.
There are so many benefits to mediation and one of them is to be connected to your own self. This is extremely important in your relationship with others because it helps you to keep your cup filled so you can give more easily. Meditation also breeds answers – in the silence you will find answers or inspiration or guidance and they all help you to be a better you.
Imagine how wonderful your union would be if you both work on being the best you can be TOGETHER.
Life is so filled with variations and everything is relative.
As a couple, it’s best to really look at your union and see what’s needed to revamp it or give it new life. Just as we give new life to our homes as the seasons change, or maybe we shift our wardrobe every few months or go for a new look, the same must be applied to our relationships.
We should always be seeking to give it new life and shift things around a bit to keep it fresh. Just keep in mind that no matter what you or don’t do or what steps you follow or don’t follow, to have your relationship work there must be a connection.
If you are always thinking of the new or true and proven ways to enhance your partner’s life and your partner is doing the same, imagine what a wonderful world filled with love we would have. Wishing you wonderful connections with your loved one all year long.
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